Only 5 a day
Do you want to improve your relationship with someone? Give 5 compliments a day to them. Now there are rules to giving the compliment:
1) It can be on anything. Turning off a light when leaving a room, Hanging up a coat when coming into the house. Ignoring a nasty comment. Finishing all their vegetables. Anything that you notice.
2) It has to be sincere. Don't say "Oh, you finally remembered to hang up your coat when you came into the house".
3) No backhanded compliments "Thank you for hanging up your coat BUT you left your shoes in the middle of the room. The BUT will KILL any compliment.
4) Give the compliment at different times in the day. It has a better effect than a summation at the end of the day of all the nice stuff they did. You can sum everything up at the end of the day but only if you gave the compliments through out the day.
5) For even more effect- Write them down on a piece of paper or start a notebook.
Try it for one week and see if you see a difference. Please let me know......
All the best,
Judy